Buying your first sex toy can feel a little overwhelming. With so many different product types, brands and features available, it's easy to wonder where to begin.

The good news is that there isn't a single "best" toy for everyone. The right choice depends on what you're hoping to experience, whether that's enhancing solo pleasure, exploring prostate stimulation, improving stamina or simply trying something new.

At Buzz Vibes, we've carefully curated a range of quality products from trusted Australian and international brands to help you shop with confidence. This guide explains the different types of men's toys, who they're best suited for and what to look for when making your first purchase.

Whether you're completely new to men's toys or simply curious about expanding your collection, this guide will help you make an informed decision.

NB: 12 minute read.

Last updated: July 2026

Both are affordable, easy to use and ideal for first-time buyers.

There's a common misconception that sex toys are only for women or that they're designed to replace intimacy with a partner. In reality, men's sex toys are simply another way to explore pleasure, understand your body and add variety to your sexual wellness routine.

Many people choose men's toys because they can:

• Enhance solo pleasure
• Explore new sensations
• Improve intimacy with a partner
• Discover prostate stimulation
• Increase confidence
• Experiment safely at their own pace

There's also a growing awareness that sexual wellness is an important part of overall wellbeing. Just as people invest in fitness, relaxation or self-care, many are becoming more open to products that help them better understand what feels good.

The most important thing to remember is that there's no right or wrong place to start. Some people begin with a simple silicone cock ring, while others prefer a beginner-friendly masturbator or prostate toy. The best option is simply the one that matches your comfort level and interests.

One of the biggest reasons first-time buyers feel overwhelmed is because "sex toys for men" actually covers several very different product categories.

Understanding what each type is designed to do makes choosing your first product much easier.

For many beginners, masturbators are the easiest place to start.

These toys are designed to enhance manual stimulation by providing a textured internal sleeve that creates sensations difficult to achieve by hand alone. Some are simple and discreet, while premium models may include vibration, suction or automatic movement.

Best for:

• First-time buyers
• Solo pleasure
• Exploring different sensations
• Anyone wanting an easy introduction to men's toys

If you're unsure where to begin, a quality masturbator is often the safest recommendation because it's familiar, easy to use and available across a wide range of budgets.

Cock rings are another excellent beginner product.

Made from soft silicone or other body-safe materials, they fit around the base of the penis and are designed to help maintain firmer erections by gently restricting blood flow.

Many people also enjoy the additional pressure and sensation they provide during both solo and partnered play.

Some models include vibrating features designed to provide stimulation for both partners.

Best for:

• Beginners
• Couples
• Enhancing erections
• Longer-lasting intimacy

If it's your first cock ring, choose a flexible silicone design that's comfortable and easy to remove.

The prostate is often referred to as the "male G-spot" because many people find prostate stimulation produces unique and intensely pleasurable sensations.

If you've never explored prostate play before, don't let that intimidate you.

Many beginner prostate toys are specifically designed with slimmer shapes, smooth silicone and gentle curves that make them comfortable and approachable for first-time users.

Take your time, use plenty of lubricant and choose a toy designed specifically for prostate stimulation rather than a general anal toy.

Best for:

• Curious beginners
• Exploring new sensations
• Hands-free stimulation
• Experienced users looking for more variety

Despite common myths, penis pumps aren't just about enlargement.

Many people use pumps as part of their sexual wellness routine to temporarily increase firmness before intimacy or as recommended by healthcare professionals for certain medical reasons. 

Results vary, and they should be used according to the manufacturer's instructions.

Modern pumps range from simple manual designs to advanced automatic models with digital controls and safety features.

Best for:

• Performance enhancement
• Temporary firmness
• Experienced users
• Premium buyers

As with any product, quality matters. Choosing a reputable brand and following the instructions carefully helps ensure a safe and enjoyable experience.

Don't feel pressured to buy the most advanced product straight away. Many experienced users started with a simple, affordable toy before gradually discovering what they enjoyed most.

Not all sex toys are made from the same materials, and choosing a body-safe option is one of the most important decisions you'll make.

At Buzz Vibes, we recommend looking for products made from high-quality materials such as:

Silicone is soft, durable, non-porous and easy to clean. It's widely regarded as one of the safest and most comfortable materials for intimate products.

Ideal for:

• Masturbators
• Cock rings
• Prostate toys

Tip: Avoid using silicone-based lubricants with silicone toys unless the manufacturer specifically states they're compatible, as they may affect the toy's surface over time.

ABS plastic is commonly used for the outer casing of premium vibrators, automatic masturbators and electronic products.

It's:

• Durable
• Hygienic
• Easy to clean
• Compatible with all lubricant types

Some masturbators use softer materials such as TPE or TPR to create a more lifelike feel.

While these can provide excellent sensations, they generally require a little more care when cleaning and storing. Always follow the manufacturer's instructions and use a dedicated toy cleaner after every use.

One of the biggest mistakes beginners make is assuming lubricant is optional.

In reality, a quality personal lubricant can significantly improve comfort, reduce friction and create a more enjoyable experience regardless of which type of toy you choose.

For most beginners, we recommend water-based lubricant because it's:

• Compatible with almost every toy material
• Easy to clean
• Gentle on sensitive skin
• Suitable for use with condoms

Silicone-based lubricants are also an excellent choice in some situations, particularly for longer sessions or water play, but they aren't compatible with every silicone toy.

If you're unsure which is right for you, we've put together a detailed comparison guide.

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Looking after your toys properly helps them last longer and keeps them hygienic for future use.

Fortunately, cleaning is quick and easy.

After Every Use

• Wash the toy following the manufacturer's instructions.
• Use warm water where appropriate.
• Clean with a dedicated toy cleaner.
• Dry thoroughly with a clean towel.
• Allow the toy to air dry completely before storing.

Storage Tips

Store toys:

• In a cool, dry place
• Away from direct sunlight
• Separately where possible
• In their original storage bag or case if supplied

Taking a few minutes to clean and store your toys properly protects both your investment and your health.

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Buying your first toy doesn't have to be complicated, but avoiding a few common mistakes can make your experience much more enjoyable.

It's tempting to assume more features automatically mean a better experience.

In reality, many beginners are happiest with a simple, well-designed product that's easy to use.

You can always upgrade later once you know what you enjoy.

Even premium toys feel better when paired with the right lubricant.

A quality water-based lubricant is one of the best accessories you can add to your order.

Cleaning your toy after every use only takes a few minutes and helps keep it hygienic and in excellent condition.

A dedicated toy cleaner makes the process quick and convenient.

While everyone has a budget, buying from trusted brands often means:

• Better materials
• Better motors
• Better battery life
• Better warranty support
• Longer product life

A quality product can provide years of enjoyment.

Exploring men's sex toys should be exciting, not intimidating.

Whether you're interested in trying your first masturbator, discovering prostate stimulation or investing in a premium performance product, the most important thing is choosing a quality product that suits your comfort level and goals.

Take your time, start with something that feels approachable and don't be afraid to explore new experiences as your confidence grows.

At Buzz Vibes, we've carefully selected products from trusted brands to help you shop with confidence, knowing you're investing in quality, discretion and great value.

When you're ready to take the next step, browse our Toys for Him collection to discover beginner-friendly favourites, premium innovations and everything in between.

Remember, there isn't a "perfect" first toy.

The best choice is the one that matches your comfort level and curiosity.

Start simple, choose quality products, take your time and enjoy discovering what works best for you.

Whenever you're ready, Buzz Vibes is here to help.